“The lesson here . . . Sometimes people throw things away. That doesn’t mean those things aren’t really, really good. Most of the time, it just means that person didn’t know what they had.”
In the style of Jonathan Tropper, Matthew Norman writes a humorous middle-age self discovery novel about a man named Andy.
Andy runs away from Omaha after his marriage falls apart, he causes a scene at his best friends wedding and loses his job. He lives in a tiny apartment in New York working as a bartender with an angry cat who he occasionally feeds cap’n crunch. Despite doing his best to avoid his hometown where his ex-wife, ex-best friend and family live, he suddenly has to go back when he finds out his grandfather is dying.
When he arrives home, he discovers that his ex-wife now lives with her new boyfriend in his old house, his mom has undergone a makeover to become a big right-wing radio personality and his ex-best friend is still mad at him. As he navigates each of the relationships he ran away from confronting, he also has to find a way to say goodbye to his grandpa.
Then he meets a young lady named Daisy. Daisy is quirky, mysterious and randomly decides she wants to make Andy whole again. She is determined to help him dress better, recover from his heartbreak and mend his life.
Though the plot is a bit typical – middle aged man is dumped by his wife, leaves his life in ruins and runs away before being forced to come home and confront/fix all his previous problems while he happens to meet a ‘different’ woman (she has tattoos! she dresses creatively!) who makes him see himself in a new way – the book is an enjoyable read. The ending is not extremely predictable and the characters don’t all fall into perfectly happy endings, which was much more satisfying than if they had.
If you liked “This is Where I Leave You” and “The Rosie Project” you will enjoy “We’re All Damaged” as well. A slightly wacky novel about getting back on your feet after life throws you a few curveballs, “We’re All Damaged” is a fun novel filled with humor, drama and devious squirrels.